Wednesday, March 14, 2007

BF n I

Whem some of my friends found out that Matt actually works away, they were shocked. They couldn't understand how could I stand only seeing the bf every second week.

When I knew abt his job, it didn't bother me much to be honest, I thought it was great so I can get enough freedom to do whatever I want when he is not around.

We have been together for more than 2 months, and I am slowly getting use to him being away every second week. Perth airport became a regular spot I travel to now, I try to pick/send him whenever I can, I think it is a good gesture. Strange enough, we were never like other couples who would kiss n hug for ages before the male has to go in. We always just a kiss and say bye to one another.

Then.. when he is away, SMS(s) and a few telephone calls are they way we keep in touch and soemtimes he gets very busy that we will not talk for a few days.

Somehow I feel.. this is just like a part time job, a part time relationship maybe? Part time relationship with full time commitment :P Am I making any sense here?

Tuesday, March 13, 2007

TIME - the most powerful creation

Ever wonder whats the most powerful thing that God ever created? I am not speaking from the Christian perspective, so don't come and bombard me with what the bible says, I didnt finish reading the bible and I am not going to.

I think TIME is the most powerful thing in this world, it is so powerful that nobody can beat it, nobody can make it stay, nobody can reverse it, nobody can rush it.

TIME can be helpful and cruel........

TIME can heal the ugliest wound in our heart; TIME allows you to see a person inside out; TIME allows you to learn to be a better person; TIME allows you calm down and not make mistakes that you will regret; TIME helps you to forget a person that hurt you so deep that you cant even breathe.

TIME will take away your youth and eventually, you have to leave your loved ones behind; TIME does not allow you to reverse your mistakes; TIME never stay so you can't stay in the happiest moment; TIME does not allow you to fast forward it, thus you have to be patient with your pain and agony...

BUT.... the best thing is.... TIME is fair to everyone, doesn't matter if you are rich, poor, blind, sick, gay, straight.... you will have your fair treatment from TIME.

Monday, March 05, 2007


When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in aday are not enough, remember the jar... and the coffee...

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front ofhim. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students ifthe jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar.He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between thegolf balls.He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Ofcourse, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jarwas full. The students responded with a unanimous "yes."

The professor thenproduced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entirecontents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand.The students laughed.

"Now," said the professor, as the laughter subsided, "I want you torecognise that this jar represents your life.The golf balls are the important things, your family, your children, yourfaith, your health, your friends, and your favourite passions.

The Things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life wouldstill be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter. Your job, yourhouse, and your car. The sand is everything else. The small stuff.If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room forthe pebbles or the golf balls.

The same goes for life. If you spend all yourtime and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the thingsthat are important to you.Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play withyour children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your partner out todinner. Play another round of golf. There will always be time to clean thehouse and wash the car.

Take care of the golf balls first, the things that really matter.Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee representedThe professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked. It just goes to show You that nomatter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of cupsof coffee with a friend."

Sunday, March 04, 2007

What do MEN want?

After 'N' relationships, sometimes I still wonder what do men want after all.

You treat them nice, they will take it for granted and start to get naughty.

You treat them bad, they call you a bitch.

Enlighten me if you could.