Old trick that works

6 years ago.......

Me : You are nice, cute and smart; I really like you. Just that I am not sure what I want at the moment, I am afraid that I may hurt you. I don't know if I am ready for relationship yet. I really enjoy hanging out with you and you are funny. But... you know I am still young and I have no idea what do I want.

Guy in mid twenties : Erm.... ok, but can we still be friends? I really hope one day we can be together.

Me: Sure, I love being your friend


Year 2006

Guy in late 20s : You are nice, cute and smart; I really like you. Just that I am not sure what I want at the moment, I am afraid that I may hurt you. I don't know if I am ready for relationship yet. I really enjoy hanging out with you and you are funny.

Me : Yea? That's good. Is ok, no worries. This has to be a mutual thing, if you dont feel right, then it is probably not right.

Guy in late 20s : Thank you, you are so understanding. Thank you for being so nice to me.




Did I tell you I believe in karma? But I think it makes sense when a 18 year old said he doesn't know what he wants... for someone turning 30 soon to say that, just lame and stupid.

No, I am not upset. In fact, I find it very funny that the excuse I used 6 years ago still works!